What you should know before a swinging encounter.
Prior
to becoming involved in an encounter with other swingers there are
a few things you should be aware of. With everyone the encounter
and the specifics of swinging vary, however, there are a few common
rules that you should take note of prior to taking part in any swinging
activity. In general, these rules apply to everyone regardless of
rather they are couples or singles.
Regardless
of where the swinging encounter will take place rather in someone’s
home, or an on-premises event, these will apply. It is especially
important for newcomers to the lifestyle to be aware of common courtesy
that is involved with the swinging lifestyle.
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Prior to leaving for a swinging event, it is generally a good idea
to make sure you brush your teeth, shave and shower. Because fingers
are a general part of most sexual activities, you should be sure
to shorten your fingernails, by clipping them.
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Typically, a hostess or host, will acquaint you with the rules and
procedures of that particular club.
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You and your partner should discuss the limitations for the event.
It is wise to discuss with your partner what is ok and what is not.
If you do not want them participating separately, this is the time
to make the limits, before you have arrived.
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Have a word or glance that can be used to let the other partner
know when enough is enough. This word should be decided upon prior
to the event. This will allow the other partner to know when something
is going awry or when they are ready to leave.
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You should carry supplies with you to practice safe sex. You should
never rely on the other party to have thought of this. Be prepared
and carry condoms, as well as a small container of water-based lubrication.
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If it is your first time at a swinging event, go into the event
with an open mind, however, do not be afraid to say NO, if you are
not interested.
All
swinging events are meant to be enjoyable experiences for everyone
involved. The swinging lifestyle is full of people that fall in
many different categories. You will meet people of various shapes,
sizes, ethnicity, and ages. It is very important to be cordial to
everyone, even if you are uninterested in him or her sexually. It
is very likely you will meet lifelong friends at a swinging event.
It is a well-known fact that the swinging community is a tight knit
group. They often remain friends for years and years.
Just
remember to set your limits prior to leaving and stick to them.
You should never feel pressured into doing something you are not
wanting or willing to do. If something happens where pressure is
put upon you, you should leave and make the host or hostess aware
of the situation.
In
the next article, we will discuss different aspects that could occur
during a swinging encounter
and how you should handle them.
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