Swinging Etiquette
There
are certain rules and etiquette that must be followed at every event
or party involving swingers. Following these guidelines will help
you create an enjoyable experience for everyone involved, which
after all, is the whole point of engaging in the swinging lifestyle
in the first place, is it not?
The
first rule of etiquette is prior to attending a party or event you
should make contact with your host or hostess. Inquire about the
type of party they are going to be hosting. There are various places
that an on-premise event can be held or organized by, these places
generally include an organization, lifestyle association, bar or
disco or a private couple within their own home. Off premise, events
are generally held in clubs, hotels or other various but similar
areas.
If
the event is theme, you should always oblige by dressing along with
theme.
Occasionally,
parties or events will not allow alcohol, if this is a request by
the host, it is important that you follow their rules. By disregarding
their request you are not only showing rudeness, and lack of respect
for everyone involved within the swinging event, but are likely
to prevent yourself from being invited again to a similar event.
A swinging
event is a very social event, when you are invited to a party; it
is very polite to immediately RSVP if you plan on attending. In
addition, you should inquire with the host if he or she needs you
to bring anything to the event. It is just general politeness to
bring something with you, rather it be flowers for the host or a
great bottle of wine (if the host is allowing alcoholic beverages).
It
is wise of you to pack a small bag of items of a personal nature
to take to the event. These items can include things like, toiletries
(toothbrush, deodorant, and the like), as well as a bathrobe and
some clean towels and washcloths.
There
are other items you might want to consider bringing as well, such
as any toys, condoms, lubrications, lotions or any other things
you may feel you may need.
It
is generally inappropriate to come to an event separately from your
partner; you should always arrive at the party at the same time.
Be on time to all events or as close as you can manage.
Ensure
that you take a shower before leaving for the event. Make yourself
as clean as you can, and avoid wearing too much perfume or cologne.
You
should always be sure to clean up your own messes, not only is it
common courtesy but it will also help in preventing the spread of
diseases. (No, I am not saying you have any. On this point, I am
speaking to you from the host or hostess' point of view.)
It
is important to be respectful and courteous to everyone at the event.
You do have the right to say no, however, it should be done politely
and with class.
If
you approach someone and they have said no, respect them and do
not be manipulative or pushy. It is not appropriate to question
the reason they are saying no, simply move on about the party and
enjoy yourself.
It
is important to use the utmost discretion. If you notice someone
you may know there, keep it to yourself. It is not your place to
tell anyone, just as it is not their place to tell anyone.
Hopefully,
this article will help you in know what is expected of you at a
swinging event and what you should expect from other swingers.
In
the next article we will cover the topic of "Is
swinging for you?", follow me in the journey to find out
if the idea you have about swinging is the suitable one for you.
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